Some of 21st ladies really do suprise me mwebantu...honestly you engaged for more than four good years and you can't lady up and get some requirements and standards to frankly approach your already settled man saying "i love you,I know you love me in return,we have a wonderful and amazing relationship that i have always dreamed,wished and prayed for and what i really want from you now is to get married to you...therefore i need you to set a date and get back to me in the nex ... t abcd weeks and if i don't get asked or response by then,you should kindly know that i ain't going to sit around here waiting and asking myself when my marriage happiness moody will be activated because the arrangements am seeing now are draining me slowly chewing and swallowing my peace."....such an approach is actually and basically reasonable and understandable to any real man who is done with 'froggie life' and ready to settle with one lady only...or maybe you want to stay in your own comfort zone for eight years plus freely waiting for your man to make a move...one thing you should know is we men sometimes try your mindsets to know if you have standards or requirements in you that qualify you to be someone we can spend the rest of our lives with...
So kindly stop giving up your powers as a lady too by going back to 1930s something beliefs like "a man has to make all the decisions in a relationship." when you even have his engagement ring on your finger and has all what it takes to make you his wife...candidly face him and look straight into his eyes and tell him you have been royal to him,you cherish him,you respect him,you kindhearted person,you very understanding and most of all tell him how much you would want to carry his children and love them so much...Tell him you need his kindness,his attention,his support,his time,his love,his loyalty too and his gentleman charisma of opening doors for you,chairs pulled out for you before he sits on his...Tell him you you expect to have a gold or diamond ring on your finger as you walk towards the puppet in the church wearing a beautiful white wedding dress ready to take marriage vowels....Am telling you my sisters,friends including you my lady no man would resist a chance to make you his wife if you frankly approached him that way unless he is from another planet...the problem have seen in most you ladies or women is you fear losing the man when you straightforward with him...believe me such fear ends up crippling your powers from taking action...Do not be afraid to lose your man because trust a man who truly loves you from deep within his soul and heart is never going to leave you...have a blessed day all and happy Sabbath to my fellow Adventists.... 1930s wedding dresses